I have liked this girl (no names) for 9 months now, we are friends but she has no idea i like her. I am 18 and in grade 12 of highschool (thought you would like to know) I think she likes this other guy, and everytime people talk about her and him i get depressed and feel like somebody stab me in the chest with a knife. I would just like to ask for advice about how i can turn this situation into my favour (canadian spelling w00t) or if you have any tips plz reply

I'm a junior in high school and I'll tell ya, I know exactly the feeling you're talking about. I've been in the same situation. My advice: find someone else. I know that's easier said than done, but in the end it's the best way to go. First, high school relationships are, for the most part, destined to end. Even if this girl were to fall completely in love with you tomorrow, odds are it would end soon after you graduate, unless you both end up in the same place. Distance is a big killer of relationships. And that's only if the relationship lasts till the end of the year. I've noticed that, even if a girl has a close boyfriend, there's always some asshole(s) that hits on her any chance he gets. You know what I'm talking about.

However, if you really believe you can make something out of this, go for it. She's not going to read your mind and realize you like her. Toss the dice, let her know. If things go well, awesome. If things don't go well, at least you got an answer. There are 6 billion people in this world, don't get too upset if this girl turns you down.

In the end, it's up to you. Do what you think is right, and live with the consequences or rewards. Life is just a game anyway.

Go watch any 80s teen movie, and you'll see that it never works out for the "nerdy friend who has a crush but she doesn't even realize he's there".

The reason she doesn't realize you like her is because THE FEELINGS AREN'T RECIPROCATED. Quit pining over someone who isn't interested in you. Frankly, it's not healthy (read: mentally) to have a fascination for someone who doesn't have similar feelings (and to feel like someone stabs you in the chest is even worse, go get a new hobby) -- and personally, girls don't like it when boys they don't like harbor unwanted feelings towards them. It's weird.

you better grow some balls buddy.
one by one, every girl i pined away for in high school, ended up telling me that they always wanted to sleep with me. but, most of them chose to do it once it wasn't possible (although some told me in person, which was nice).
anyway, point is,if you don't get some balls it won't happen. or, years from now when you are married, they'll all come out of the woodwork.

P.S: girls don't like pussies, and if they do, they're lesbians. which may be asthetically pleasing, but won't work to your advantage.